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I’m open to a lot of things. I’m interested in orgasm control, praise, ties, CNC, and other things in that area. Submissive. Looking to get to know and meet someone in person, short term or long term, but I don’t want to be complete strangers. Ask me if you’re going to send me pics, i’ll stop responding if you don’t ☺️☺️
Female (28) Estero, Florida
I describe myself as a Sensualist and Social Nudist. I am NOT looking for sexual play partners/FWB/NSA. I have several goals here: I want a SWM for a LTR; a man with a similar mindset in and out of the bedroom. I also seek Social Nudists for visiting resorts and home parties. I am also on Fetlife and a member of Sarasota DT. Please read my profile FULLY before writing to me. I do NOT seek FWB or NSA. I also welcome LOCAL kink or nudist friends, Ballroom partners and Travel buddies. I am originally from Philly, PA. Currently living in SW FL, USA. IN THE BR: I am not submissive but I like a bit of kink and I prefer the man to take charge in BR activities. And when his focus is pleasing me, I become very agreeable to a man with a selfless attitude. I want enough kink to Spice things up a bit. IN the RELATIONSHIP: I am a strong minded woman with no desire for servitude and will not accept or give discipline or training. My preference is to show my man what I want and need, trusting him to provide for me. I have a loving, giving heart. In past relationships, I have been so much a giver that it was to my detriment. The Universe has taught me valuable lessons about not "losing" myself completely in a relationship. I have healthy relationship skills and desire the same in my man. I want an attentive, emotionally mature man who treats me as an equal. Just as in the BR, I give 100% of myself to my relationship when I feel it first from my man. I am HWP, clean, non-smoker. I live with a positive mindset and I'm also a Social Nudist, enjoying Adult Nudist Resorts (but I am not a swinger). I seek all these qualities in my LTR partner. ALTHOUGH genuine and unpretentious, I'm definitely not "what you see is what you get". My persona is warm but reserved. In truth, I am free-spirited, uninhibited with an adventurous heart and confidence. I'm a mature (with wisdom, not years, lol), sexy lady. I enjoy pushing the boundaries of my comfort zone. I DON' TRY to be politically correct. If being PC is important to you, we are definitely not a LTR match. I'm not a rebel but I am also not what anyone could call a "goody-2-shoes"; I prefer to live by my own lights. I mesh best with middle-of-the-road to Conservatives, politically. FRIENDS describe me as: Playful, Sexy, Free Spirit, Sensual, Open-minded, Genuine, Unpretentious, Considerate and Empathic, Agreeable and Fun. VANILLA PLEASURES: Ballroom/Partner dancing, Board & card games, Traveling & Cruises, Ziplining (naked when possible ;), Wordplay especially Paraprosdokians, Law of Attraction & Metaphysical, Psychology and *** behavior, Reading Shifter & Kink novels. NO SMOKERS, please! MY IDEAL MAN: Seeking a special SWM 50 to 68 years old for a LTR. Not an average man; I seek a quality, fit, sensual person, who lives life at a higher vibration, manifesting his life with intention. I am sapiosexual and I am attracted to a confident man. Do I pique your interest AND do you see YOURSELF in what I seek? If so, write to me after you read my profile. I don't bite...much! To get a reply from me. tell me what you see in common and what you like about my profile. I want to be wooed! And include the phrase "silly wabbit" so I know you read my profile.
Female (62) Estero, Florida

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I’m open to a lot of things. I’m interested in orgasm control, praise, ties, CNC, and other things in that area. Submissive. Looking to get to know and meet someone in person, short term or long term, but I don’t want to be complete strangers. Ask me if you’re going to send me pics, i’ll stop responding if you don’t ☺️☺️
Female (28) Estero, Florida
I describe myself as a Sensualist and Social Nudist. I am NOT looking for sexual play partners/FWB/NSA. I have several goals here: I want a SWM for a LTR; a man with a similar mindset in and out of the bedroom. I also seek Social Nudists for visiting resorts and home parties. I am also on Fetlife and a member of Sarasota DT. Please read my profile FULLY before writing to me. I do NOT seek FWB or NSA. I also welcome LOCAL kink or nudist friends, Ballroom partners and Travel buddies. I am originally from Philly, PA. Currently living in SW FL, USA. IN THE BR: I am not submissive but I like a bit of kink and I prefer the man to take charge in BR activities. And when his focus is pleasing me, I become very agreeable to a man with a selfless attitude. I want enough kink to Spice things up a bit. IN the RELATIONSHIP: I am a strong minded woman with no desire for servitude and will not accept or give discipline or training. My preference is to show my man what I want and need, trusting him to provide for me. I have a loving, giving heart. In past relationships, I have been so much a giver that it was to my detriment. The Universe has taught me valuable lessons about not "losing" myself completely in a relationship. I have healthy relationship skills and desire the same in my man. I want an attentive, emotionally mature man who treats me as an equal. Just as in the BR, I give 100% of myself to my relationship when I feel it first from my man. I am HWP, clean, non-smoker. I live with a positive mindset and I'm also a Social Nudist, enjoying Adult Nudist Resorts (but I am not a swinger). I seek all these qualities in my LTR partner. ALTHOUGH genuine and unpretentious, I'm definitely not "what you see is what you get". My persona is warm but reserved. In truth, I am free-spirited, uninhibited with an adventurous heart and confidence. I'm a mature (with wisdom, not years, lol), sexy lady. I enjoy pushing the boundaries of my comfort zone. I DON' TRY to be politically correct. If being PC is important to you, we are definitely not a LTR match. I'm not a rebel but I am also not what anyone could call a "goody-2-shoes"; I prefer to live by my own lights. I mesh best with middle-of-the-road to Conservatives, politically. FRIENDS describe me as: Playful, Sexy, Free Spirit, Sensual, Open-minded, Genuine, Unpretentious, Considerate and Empathic, Agreeable and Fun. VANILLA PLEASURES: Ballroom/Partner dancing, Board & card games, Traveling & Cruises, Ziplining (naked when possible ;), Wordplay especially Paraprosdokians, Law of Attraction & Metaphysical, Psychology and *** behavior, Reading Shifter & Kink novels. NO SMOKERS, please! MY IDEAL MAN: Seeking a special SWM 50 to 68 years old for a LTR. Not an average man; I seek a quality, fit, sensual person, who lives life at a higher vibration, manifesting his life with intention. I am sapiosexual and I am attracted to a confident man. Do I pique your interest AND do you see YOURSELF in what I seek? If so, write to me after you read my profile. I don't bite...much! To get a reply from me. tell me what you see in common and what you like about my profile. I want to be wooed! And include the phrase "silly wabbit" so I know you read my profile.
Female (62) Estero, Florida

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I’m naturally dominant in presence and energy. The dynamic that fits me is a devotional TPE, with submission gifted by the sub, rather than directed by me.

The closest archetype to me would be a Goddess-style Domme. I don’t enjoy directing someone into submission; the right person would be naturally submissive and striving to learn, through trial and error, what pleases me. I'll allow what pleases me, and gently decline what doesn't.

The right dynamic reveals itself through respect, instinct, and how a sub shows up in the real world.

My dominance is feminine in nature, so I don’t pursue or lead the dating ritual. I enjoy dating and being romanced. I appreciate submissives who enjoy taking the initiative, planning dates, and taking pleasure in learning what pleases me and what doesn't. I love being presented with options to choose from, and giving feedback where necessary.

I value emotional intelligence, steadiness, and authenticity. I notice character and behaviour over time more than claims or labels.

I’m not interested in kink discussions until compatibility has been established in person in every other way, and I’m not someone who enjoys online messaging as a means to get to know someone.

The intimate side of a dynamic only reveals itself once trust and real-world romantic and emotional connection exist and my rule is earned. I will not discuss physical intimacy with online strangers.
That said, when it comes to intimacy, my pleasure comes first. The right submissive will find their fulfillment in that.

I take D/s very seriously, and I am not abusive, I respect limits.

I see submission as a gift. I also see choosing, and allowing a submissive to please me as a precious gift from me to them.

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